New Years Resolutions for Parents & Caregivers
Rae Patterson Rae Patterson

New Years Resolutions for Parents & Caregivers

Every new year brings a quiet pressure to improve. For parents, that pressure can feel especially heavy being responsible for the wellbeing of tiny humans. You’re surrounded by advice, highlight reels, and well-meaning opinions about what you should and should not do. Instead of striving for perfection, let’s resolve to be enough for our children.

Read More
Caregiver Burnout Truths
Rae Patterson Rae Patterson

Caregiver Burnout Truths

Caregivers, mothers especially, are often praised for their ability to give to their family at all times. But let’s be honest: that praise is often the perfect path to burnout.

Read More
Book Recommendation: “The Color Monster”
Rae Patterson Rae Patterson

Book Recommendation: “The Color Monster”

The Color Monster is a wonderful way to help young children explore big emotions in a developmentally appropriate way. I often recommend this book as a parent coach and former early childhood teacher.

Read More
Honoring Children’s Boundaries During the Holidays
Boundaries, Parenting, Children, Holidays Rae Patterson Boundaries, Parenting, Children, Holidays Rae Patterson

Honoring Children’s Boundaries During the Holidays

We've all navigated that moment: a family member wants a kiss or a hug, operating under the well-meaning but flawed idea that being family grants automatic access to a child's body. However, repeatedly pushing our kids to allow touch when they're uncomfortable teaches them to override their own intuition—a setup for difficulties with boundaries and consent later in life.

Read More